It’s that magical time of year when the desert comes alive with music, fabulous people (mostly) and of course, amazing parties. Some of them are so exclusive that it seems almost impossible to get in. I tell you TGIFguide readers, it IS possible, well, at least like 90% possible, if you know how to do it!  I’ve received an influx of messages asking “How can I get in to Neon Carnival?” or “Do you have a contact for the Rachael Zoe party?” and I decided to create this post to give my readers a tip on how to get in, or at least, to try 🙂

Step 1 : Do your research. It’s important to know who to talk to. It’s going to be useless to rsvp to the info@ address or the rsvp@ address. Get on LinkedIn or ask some of your friends who may have an ‘in’ or at least an idea of who’s doing the PR. Even a Google search is better than nothing.

Step 2 : Be nice. This should probably be listed as number one, but if you don’t know who to talk to in the first place, then you won’t know who to be nice to. Just kidding. You should be nice and respectful to everyone all the time, obviously, but still, if you are kind and polite and perhaps even invite the publicist to another event, than you’re like 1000 times better off getting in than if you just say rsvp Jackie +1, thanks!

Step 3 : Have style. Face it. If you’re desperate, it shows. And if you’re not dressed well and don’t look like you belong in the scene when you arrive, chances are, you don’t. So keep it clean, and even if you’re covered in desert dust, put on an outfit that represents the fabulous you that you are. Saggy jeans won’t get you far boo, even out in the dusty desert.

Here’s one more for good luck. If they tell you “no,” write back and ask why. I guarantee you’ll get in after the second try. And if you don’t hear back, follow up! Not in like a scary stalker kind of way, but in a “hey! Just checking to make sure you got my rsvp. Super excited can’t wait to see you there!”

Good luck lovers. Now, here is a list of parties! See you soon <3

Me at Coach a few years back :)

Me at Coach a few years back 🙂

Friday, April 10

Galore and Up&Down’s Kick-Off BBQ 
Who: Musical performances from Pia Mia and Dorothy.
Where: 1OAK Chateau in La Quinta.
When: 1-5 p.m.
Invite only.

MAC Cosmetics and Mia Moretti’s Pool Party 
Who: Mia Moretti to host.
Where: Ingleside Inn (200 W Ramon Rd, Palm Springs, 92265)
When: 2-6 p.m.
Invite only.

The Retreat @ Coachella 
Who: Guest DJ set by SOSUPERSAM. Music from Isaac Ferry and Daisy O’Dell.
Where: The Sparrows Lodge (1330 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, 92264)
When: 12-5 p.m.
Invite only.

Coach and Executive Creative Director Stuart Vevers’ Daytime Party
Who: Echosmith to perform.
Where: Soho Desert House
When: 3-6 p.m.
Invite only.

PopSugar + ShopStyle Happy Hour
Who: Alessandra Ambrosio
Where: Viceroy Palm Springs (415 S Belardo Rd, Palm Springs, 92262)
When: 4:30-7 p.m.
Invite only.

Pandora Jewelry Presents Siwy Denim Runway Show
Where: Parker Palm Springs (4200 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, 92264)
When: 5 p.m.
Invite only for runway show. Lawn party is open to public.

H&M Loves Coachella
Who: Haim is set to perform a guest DJ set. SheJ to provide music.
Where: Parker Palm Springs (4200 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, 92264)
When: 6-9 p.m.
Invite only.

Nylon Presents Midnight Garden
Who: Sky Ferreira to host. DJ sets from Mia MorettiChelsea Leyland and The Misshapes. Musical performance by The Dolls.
Where: Private Hangar in Bermuda Dunes
When: 9 p.m.-3 a.m.
Invite only.

 

Saturday, April 11

People Style Watch and Revolve present Festival Fashion
Who: Nikki Reed to host. Performance by Jhene Aiko with DJ set from Chelsea Leyland.
Where: Avalon Palm Springs (415 S Belardo Rd, Palm Springs, 92262)
When: 1 p.m.
Invite only.

Pandora Jewelry Presents Tracy Reese and Nanette Lepore Runway Shows
Where: Parker Palm Springs (4200 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, 92264)
When: Tracy Reese at 1 p.m., Nanette Lepore at 3 p.m.
Invite only for runway show. Lawn party is open to public.

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The Zoe Report + Dolce Vita Pool Party
Who: Rachel Zoe.
Where: Undisclosed location in Palm Springs
When: 2-6 p.m.
Invite only.

PopSugar + ShopStyle Brunch
Who: Zoe Kravitz is set to pop by with a Lolawolf performance. DJ sets by Hannah Bronfman, Val Fleury and Harley Viera-Newton.
Where: Viceroy Palm Springs (415 S Belardo Rd, Palm Springs, 92262)
When: 11 a.m.-1 p.m.
Invite only.

Refinery29 and A-OK Collective Presents Paradiso
Who: Alexa Chung, Atlanta De Cadenet Taylor and Ana Calderson are slated to attend and perform.
Where: The Saguaro Palm Springs (1800 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, 92264)
When: 12-6 p.m.
Public. RSVP here.

Harper’s Bazaar and Coach “ShopBAZAAR” Brunch
Where: Soho Desert House
When: 2-5 p.m.
Invite only.

Interview Magazine Pool Party & BBQ
Where:  Private residence.
When: 1-5 p.m.
Invite only.

Pandora & T-Mobile Indio Invasion Party
Who: DJ sets by Questlove and SOSUPERSAM.
Where: Private Residence in Cathedral City.
When: 1-4 p.m.
Invite only.

Tinder Presents a One of a Kind Afternoon
Where: 1OAK Chateau in La Quinta.
When: 1-6 p.m.
Invite only.

Bootsy Bellows Estate
Who: Performances from 2 Chainz, Cody Simpson and AStaR. DJ sets by Brody JennerWilliam Lifestyle, Johnny Wujek and Devin Lucien. Don’t be surprised if Gigi Hadid stops by too.
Where: Bootsy Bellows Estate.
When: 2-6 p.m.
Invite only.

Paper and PacSun’s Neon Carnival
Who: DJ Ruckus, Politik, Jesse Marco and Kayper are set to perform.
Where: Tradition Aviation (56850 Higgins Drive, Thermal, 92274)
When: 10 p.m.
Invite only.

Moschino Late Night Hosted By Jeremy Scott
Who: Though not confirmed, Miley Cyrus will most likely make an appearance to support her pal.
Where: Private residence at the Desert Compound.
When: 11 p.m.-4 a.m.
Invite only.

 

Sunday, April 13

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Mudd and Ocean Pacific Present The Music Lounge
Who: DJ sets by Henri, Myles Hendrik and Wade Crescent.
Where: Ingleside Inn (200 W Ramon Rd, Palm Springs, 92264​​​)
When: 12-5 p.m.
Invite only.

Do-Over Desert Sundays 2015
Where: Ace Hotel & Swim Club (701 E. Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs, 92264)
When: 12-6 p.m.
Public. RSVP here.

Refinery29 and A-OK Collective Presents Paradiso
Who: Zoe Kravitz and her band Lolawolf  and Alexis Krauss of Sleigh Bells to perform.
Where: The Saguaro Palm Springs (1800 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, 92264)
When: 12-6 p.m.
Public. RSVP here.

Interview Magazine’s Model Muses
Who: Possible attendees include Gigi Hadid, Martha Hunt and Chanel Iman.
Where: Private residence.
When: 1-4 p.m.
Invite only.

PopSugar + ShopStyle Cabana Club
Who: Hannah Bronfman to DJ.
Where: Viceroy Palm Springs (415 S Belardo Rd, Palm Springs, 92262)
When: 1-6 p.m.
Invite only.

Sunday Funday at the Nylon House
Where: Private Hangar in Bermuda Dunes.
When: 1-6 p.m.
Invite only.

Pandora Jewelry Presents WHIT Runway Show
Where: Parker Palm Springs (4200 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, 92264)
When: 2 p.m.
Invite only for runway show. Lawn party is open to public.

#Sabochella
Where: Undisclosed location.
When: 2-6 p.m.
Invite only.

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Written by Jacqueline Chambers

Jacqueline Chambers

Jacqueline Chambers is the founder of TGIFguide. She uses her innate skills as a natural “connector” to serve businesses, brands and individuals in the LA area and beyond.